FAMILY DAY 2018

Isn’t family a beautiful entity?! I mean, when you think of it, each of our families are, distinct and live an independent existence, yet all the while, we are as a human nation, fused as one, a single entity! A family consists of elders, which is the wisdom and the children, the continuance, which is the remaining existing force, left to carry on with that wisdom. Then, I ask myself, what is happening to our children, our young adults, that find some kind of comfort in eating soap pods, overdosing on drugs, committing suicide at an alarming rate? 😦
Have we as, parents, elders, dropped the ball, now raising followers, instead of leaders?? With the onslaught of social media, have the horrific events around the world, scared our young to the point, none of them want to take the lead?
I blame no one, yet think we as communites need to start pulling together for our young and raise more, LEADERS! .. and reward the followers, as they strive to become leaders or assist and give strength to lead…it takes a community! A few drops in a bucket can send a tidal wave!”
“Leaders don’t force people to follow they invite them on a journey.” – CL

Moderation In A World Of Mayhem!

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By the light of her cell phone, she rolls over in her bed, reading the newsfeed of her favorite social media site, as the clock, tic tocks on the night stand beside her bed.

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If you own a cell phone, I imagine this has been a scene in your life at some point. I joined the cell phone crowd about a year ago. I tossed the land line and began carrying my life in my right hand pocket, which included, everyone else in my life as well. With all the bells and whistles that go with, someone posting on my social media sites, or someone texting me, calling me and tagging me, 24/7!!

STOP!!.. Make the world go away and get it off my shoulders. Ha!, sounds like a song to me. But it is a point I did reach after a few months of owning a cell phone. I needed silence and time to unwind. So by 9pm nightly, you, the world is silenced. I set the cell phone to silent, very low light, flip it over and take a deep breath as I lay my head on my pillow.

But, what if there is an emergency? How will we reach you? Well, come and knock on my door or send some one close by to knock on it. You were able reach me before I got the cell phone, you still can.

Some people, most people, have excuses why they can’t silence their cell, but few have a legit reason, because there probably is not one. As for me, I am not here to judge, yet more than likely, I get a better nights sleep than you and wake refreshed in the morning. 🙂 I have always found it easy to detach from things, people included, even though my will power is not strong. As weird as that is, it does work for me.

It’s 630am, time to start a new day, bright eyed and bushy tailed! Oh, now where is that cell phone? So I can see and read what you’ve been up to for the last 8 hours. 😉

Have a great day!