Who Fears Who or What?

How many times as a child have we walked home after doing something we know our parents told us not to do and feared the consequences behind the front door of the house?? For me, there was a few times for sure, I can still hear my own thoughts, “Why did I do that? Man, I am in trouble now! Mom’s going to ground me and Dad going to kick my butt! Argh!” as I sweated bullets with every step. Sometimes when I got home, the punishment was not as bad as I thought and sometimes I got an butt spanking that I knew I didn’t want to mess up again. I guess we call that, having a conscience? Is that what is wrong with our young people today and with parents? The children have no fear of consequences and adults/parents have given up? And why is that? is it the parents now fearing the consequences of disciplining their own children and the children feel totally in control, yet they can’t handle the responsibility or have the stamina and mindset to set their own boundaries?

“Trust your instincts, even if they are telling you something that your heart really really does not want to consider. It can save your life.” F.C.

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The other side of that cohesive exterior is an effete soul. A person who wants to be disciplined and not the disciplinary. A person who’s shoulders need to be eased of burdens and their face grasped for eye to eye contact, showing the lead. We are not meant to have one side, yet we can show only one, that side that marches through our days in control of every step, every decision, a perfect one that wins the crowds. Yet behind the door of our castle, we submit to another’s control, a new master, unlike our own, evens out our days and nights, to make each perfect, to make each something tolerated on the worse of days and anticipated on the best of days. That is control, that is self control and only you can dominate the mediocre Only you can possess the exceptional, the great, Inner self. So lick the lips of life, grab it by the hair, stimulating your deepest root, shedding light on your youthful soul.