Still feel the same 5 yrs later. The song at the end says it all.❤

Snowy Impressions

Tis the season.. So much cheer!.. It is time for family and friends feasting and frolicking, gift giving and under mistletoe kissing!


One thing no one likes to think of is if a loved one is spending any of the time over the holidays, alone. For most of us we have big enough families and a great amount of friends that we don’t have to be alone…I will be spending Christmas Eve with my children, which I look forward to… However!!.. Speaking as a single person 9 years now, apart from spending that day with my children, there has been years where I have wanted to just stay home the rest of the time by myself.

Not lonely.. And it is hard for some to understand that many singles don’t care to be in the company of a bunch of couples..lol..especially New Years Eve.. Blah. J

I have had this…

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Giving Thanks

It is Thanksgiving weekend here in Ontario Canada. I enjoy reading on social media what my friends and family are thankful for. Pretty much all of them mention, their love for and from other loved ones.

For myself, of course, there is the love for and from my family and friends and running third is my ability to still live a life, to a great degree, that brings me happiness. I love learning, by experience, reading, writing, researching, understanding the human life and lives. I do hate racism, disrespect, abuse, especially child abuse and even try to understand, why anyone can be like that, do those things to other human beings, especially our children. I love reading about, how to lead a better life through inspiration of others, by reaching a peace of mind with regards to anything I do or say.

After living through a few health challenges, physically, I had to strengthen my self, mentally and emotionally, so now,  I live in the moment and cherish every moment I am given. I love too hard at times and forgive to easily. But my love is genuine.

This year I am thankful for being, still, on this earth and will always try to live my day, like it is my last. I made a promise once, which I have never shared with anyone and  may the Creator give me the strength to continue to hold true to that.

thanks for reading this blog post.


#thankful #life #familyandfriends #inspire

Hold Your Tongue!


I find as I age, I am maturing. ha! 😉 Actually I am learning. still! And I love what I am learning.
Learning that, I don’t always have to be ready to attack, as soon as anyone says something I don’t like or agree with.
Because I need and want to learn. When I don’t take the time to listen to another person, it is removing their ability to think and
express themselves, an attack of, freedom Of speech. I love this freedom I have acquired over the past 11 years and the greatest part of that freedom is feeling comfortable in my own space and learning from what others do and say. I need to handle
any opposing view, not to be so thin skinned and realize that some one elses point of view is also, not an attack
against me, but an expression of who they are, at that point in their lives. I love that I found a person I can listen to for hours and enjoy listening to.
Being powerful and wise is part of maturing. If we can’t handle some one disagreeing with us, well, the path we are on
is only going to get rougher, because education comes in many forms, not just in a classroom. Developing our own personal codes to live by, then those that love us, should respect and uphold them in our presence.
One blogger said,
“If you want freedom to speak, you must be willing to give it and defend it for others. We can’t just cherry pick what we want to know and ignore the rest.”
There is so much free education in this world, through the world wide web, through libraries, through the people you surround yourself with. Again it is about being thick skinned and not so immature that we get all our panties in a bunch when some one says something we don’t agree with.
” Life is not always beautiful, life can be so unkind to you and others. And unless you are willing to life in harmony and balance with those difficult moments, you are not living in the world around you or able to harness the energies of the world around you.” – P.P.

“I wish you a harmonious weekend! May the Creator bless you with lovely moments that turn into beautiful memories. Take the time today to call or visit your parents, if you are lucky enough to have them still on this earth. And if your parents have passed over, like mine, put your hand over your heart, close your eyes and say, I love you Mom/Dad… knowing that heart beat was given to you by them the day you were born.. for you are their blessing. Love you Mom and Dad into eternity.”