There are so many sides to us as a people. And it is the balance of those sides to what ever degree, which creates our personalities. Too much on one side of the other may or may not be a good thing. There are the 2 sides of a person that this little write up will focus on, that is the , Masculine & Feminine side of people, men in particular this time.
“Overview of the Masculine-Feminine Polarity by John and Micki Baumann”
–Essentially, the masculine side comes from a place of strength. Strength is at the top end of the scale, whereas weakness is at the bottom end. In contrast, the feminine side comes from a place of goodness. Here, goodness is at the top end of the scale, whereas badness or evil is at the bottom end.
–You develop the strength of the masculine side by having a deep belief in the value of your own life, and you develop the goodness of the feminine side by having a deep belief in the value of the life of others.
–The balance between the masculine and feminine side is very important. If you have too much strength for the amount of goodness you have, you can really do a lot of harm to people. Conversely, if you have too much goodness for the amount of strength you have, then you can do harm to yourself, because you tend to “give it all away”.
–On a more physical level, if you have a strong masculine side, you have the ability to take control of your own life, and if you have a strong feminine side, you have the ability to let go of trying to control the lives of others. A strong feminine side keeps you from interfering with the choices that others have the right to make for themselves.
–In terms of energy output, the masculine side always has energy available to put into accomplishing things, while the feminine side always has energy available for doing what is right or good.
–How developed one side is compared to the other defines the balance between the masculine and feminine sides. This balance not only determines how you treat others relative to yourself, but it also determines what types of emotions you feel most strongly.’
With all that said, I find a man who is in touch with his feminine side to be a very sexy trait. And these type of men are the best when it comes to long term relationships because they understand the opposite sex or at least take the time to understand, that which makes a huge difference. No matter what age we are, learning to balance the scales is a good thing and attracts well balanced people in our direction.